Archive - Mutually Assured Seduction

Optimize Your Laundry System

Let’s turn the forum talk about cognitive load into actual talk about loads.

23 hrs ago

May 2026

Anyway i think we should all learn to tango

I have tangoed yesterday for the first time in my life, for real.

May 30

Unsolicited Looksmaxxing to Look Like a Greek God

Tomás Bjartur sent me down the rabbit hole of this statue:

May 25

No Sex is the Ultimate Sex

She turned to him, “are we having sex right now?”

May 24

An attempt to become a cinephile

I am not the cinephile in the friend group, but I know a few cinephiles, and maybe I can absorb their knowledge.

May 23

Unsolicited Looksmaxxing about Hair

For the Unusual Tips for Looksmaxxing Series

May 22

can't write, more memories

hmmm, I have not written an erotica, if I were I would probably start by reading a lot about mermaids

May 21

Life Without Food Noise

In the general conversations about GLP-1s, people have been telling me about the feeling of food noise going away.

May 20

Thinking about what I would have as a curriculum for a movie club.

May 19

The thoughts for this post came, and then went, a few times.

May 18

Walking past stone castles, on green grass.

May 17

Of Course Everybody Loves Obituaries and Reading Them

Trigger Warning: Obituaries and Reading Them

May 16

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